The Path To Closer And More Meaningful Relationships
With Far Less Stress, Conflicts And Breakdowns.
Rearcher, Author, Facilitator
I had to know why two individuals who are in love, over time, inexplicably show impatience or even hostility towards one another. Why is it that we can be so kind to strangers yet, at times, so unkind to those we claim to cherish most?
For over three decades, I've delved into this perplexing pattern of human behaviour. I've sought to decipher the dynamics that exist between loving, well-meaning individuals — exploring, discussing, and dissecting the intricacies of human relationships. The outcome? A revelation of fundamental principles governing our interactions. These principles, though distinct, lead to predictable behavioural patterns which, if left misunderstood, can produce confusion, conflicts, and miscommunications even amongst the most benevolent.
But here's the silver lining: once illuminated, these principles can guide us towards more harmonious relationships, helping us truly connect with those we hold dear, and navigate life with greater ease and joy.
Uncovering the Hidden Obvious
Dedicating years to in-depth research, Rory identified four inherent behavioural archetypes within every individual, reminiscent of the work seen in Douglas Gillette and Robert L. Moore’s renowned "King, Warrior, Magician, Lover." However, Rory's unique contribution to this field is his insight into how people dominantly lean into one unbalanced archetype when under duress. This unbalance, he found, often leads to tension as individuals, bound by their own archetypal nature, find it challenging to understand others operating from a different archetype.
From the Desk of Rory Kilmartin
Simply put, my findings have demystified relationships. By outlining and explaining the predictable behavioural patterns - we know them as ‘Archetypes’ - that are present within individuals… We are able to see through new lenses. To understand why others do and say the very things that irritate us. We are able to explain the invisible forces that are not only influencing relationships, but are actually governing them. Then working to habitually be harmonious and understanding with the people we love the most, more so than any other program, training, or book has been able to do.
Here’s how we do that…
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